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So, you start to get impatient. You begin to doubt yourself, your ability to like someone, you see that time passes, months, years, and you still do not find your ideal partner or a partner. Then you start to despair and enter a vicious circle in which, the more desperate, the more difficult it is for you to find a partner and the more difficult you have it, the more desperate you are.

A relationship, if it is intended to be serious, implies a time to get to know each other, to stay, to spend time together, to open up sentimentally to the other person, to seek happiness through sharing time and space with the other, etc.

Come on, it is not like going to the supermarket and hesitating between buying strawberry or banana yoghurts, but something much more important. When you lose patience, when you start to despair, you doubt yourself, your abilities, your ability to please and start feeling rejected and unloved.

This affects self-esteem and makes the person try to modify his behaviour, his way of being, to do something different and try to get closer by projecting another image of himself. Change is not bad, either. There are people who have had to change many things to be more sociable, pleasant, close, friendly, positive, etc.

And this is how one stops being oneself, behaving in an unreal way, often incongruous. You meet another person and you do the possible and the impossible to please him, you show him what he wants to see and you tell him what he wants to hear, but it is not you, but the character you have created to please.

Without being yourself, you run the risk of contradicting yourself: one day give him an opinion, wanting to show personality because people usually like that the other has a bit clear ideas , and another argues the contrary just because he is the one who is closer to his way of thinking. And feeling it very much, the alter ego that many people create has a very limited life because it is exhausting to maintain them and because there always comes a point where the real personality struggles to get out, and then everything falls into chaos.

It is widely assumed that men develop feelings and get attracted to a girl very quickly. When a woman feels this way, she starts to worry and questions Why do i catch feelings as fast a guy? To put a halt to your worry and for your understanding, it is important to know that developing feelings like these are very normal and not gender specific. Who hunts more and better, the one who waits patiently for hours until he finds his prey, bringing down only when he knows he has an accurate target or the one who shoots insanely at the slightest movement?

Perhaps the second will one day have a lucky break and get prey with so much hitting, but surely the first hunts better because he knows what he wants and what he must do to get it. When looking for a partner , as I have said before, we must know how to wait and choose the person we believe can make us happy, and for this, we have to be at a vital moment in which we know who we are and what we want. The impressive ratings would continue for the rest of the season, which averaged The show remained part of the top ten most-watched series for five seasons, garnering similarly fervent attention with international audiences.

Given all of these accolades, why did season 9 never happen? Making the decision in concert with Paul Lee, the president of ABC at the time, Cherry explained that he wanted to end the series while it was still valuable for the network. We felt from a creative standpoint that this was the right time. Yet anyone who has watched the show would never consider it an intense drama along the lines of This Is Us. Desperate Housewives was always easily able to juggle different genres and tones.

One of the biggest celebrity scandals this year was the college admissions scandal, also known as "Operation Varsity Blues". The scandal was not cordoned off to celebrities only and turned out to be a wide-scale ring of bribery between various adults and universities trying to scam kids into college.

It did, however, take down at least two high-profile celebrities: Felicity Huffman and Lori Loughlin. Ironically, darkly so, Huffman's Desperate Housewives character Lynette Scavo tried to bribe her kids' way into an elite preschool in the show's first season. Lynette even tried to donate the same amount of money as Huffman allegedly did in real life.

The common storytelling trope that a small town has tons of secrets is not a new thing, but Desperate Housewives certainly helped popularize the idea in comedy-dramas. The idea that your traditional Americana suburb could have tons of bored housewives doing something seedy and nefarious took root after this show was created and helped launch Bravo's flagship franchise, The Real Housewives.

The first edition, Real Housewives of Orange County , was directly inspired by the ABC drama and has now become a mega-franchise for the network.

In the early seasons of Desperate Housewives , Gaby was the only housewife who didn't have children, and she was adamant about keeping it that way. Fast forward a few years later after the show introduced a time jump, and, suddenly, Gaby had kids. Not to mention, she was living a totally different lifestyle.

It's unfortunate the series thought that this was the right way to go because it implied that the only way a woman can be happy and fulfilled is if she has children. A renewal seemed like a sure bet because actresses Teri Hatcher , Felicity Huffman , Marcia Cross, and Eva Longoria had just wrapped up contract renegotiations to take them into the ninth season.

Cherry admitted "there was a touch of shock" when he told that cast that the cul-de-sac would be closing down for good. He mentioned that the moment was both bittersweet and lovely as everyone prepared to go their separate ways. Alberto E.



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